What’s the STORY behind sex in a committed relationship?
Sex is important to me, not just because it feels good (although let’s face it- that’s nice 🙂 but because it brings a level of intimacy and closeness in a relationship. It’s provides a deep connection between me and fiancé, and is an expression of love and desire. For some, monogamy isn’t always easy, we as humans crave novelty and newness. But for me, I value making a commitment to my partner, it’s meaningful to be able to share myself fully with my fiancé. The question becomes: if i value monogamy and want to keep the desire alive, can I create novelty and newness in a long term relationship? I think it’s possible and I wanted to share some expert sex tips I think are extremely important and useful. I want us to enjoy our partners and have amazing sex for as long as we possibly can!
What are your tips for having sex in a long term relationship? I would LOVE to know your thoughts!
Resources:
- Dr Emily Morse (Sex with Emily)
- Esther Perel’s book “Mating In Captivity”
- Wednesday Martin’s book “Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust…”
